Too Close To The Flame

"Our world is aflame with sex," warns counselor and author Dr. Gregg Jantz. We live in a society where sex is practiced openly, talked about freely, engaged in creatively, and flaunted shamelessly. Cultural stigmas that once kept sex within definable boundaries have all but disappeared.

Anyone can fall prey to sexual temptation or become the target of a sexual aggressor. Any man or woman who has contact with the opposite sex—whether at church, in the workplace, or at play—needs the vital information contained in these pages.

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While inappropriate sexualized work places have existed for centuries, victims now have a sympathetic platform where their grievances are not only being heard, but perpetrators are being held accountable. People, mostly men, in the highest echelons of society are taking stunning falls, and falling hard – Hollywood elite, business managers, newscasters, Congressmen, Senators, clergy members, professional athletes, and more. The disruption to businesses, institutions of trust, and indeed our societal fiber, is dramatic.

But it doesn’t have to be that way, says mental health expert and go-to media source on sexualized relationships, Dr. Gregory Jantz.

“For thirty years I have counseled clients on inappropriate sexual behavior, including work place relationships. The good news is that behavior can change. Frankly, it must change. I am heartened by the recent awareness of the issue of sexual harassment. Now is the time to have frank discussions and training for businesses, community leaders, churches, and anyone in a position of authority over another. That’s why I wrote the book Too Close To The Flame,” says Dr. Jantz.

Too Close To The Flame is a best-seller that addresses and helps change inappropriate sexualized behavior in the work place. The issue, according to Jantz, is how far we have swung toward “sexualized relationships.” Following his book, Dr. Jantz delivers powerful research-based presentations to educate professionals on the causes and behaviors associated with disordered relationships.

He helps businesses understand how a work place environment may be unwittingly encouraging inappropriate behavior. He helps individuals understand how their behavior can be toxic to a work environment at best, and legally liable in the extreme.

Dr. Jantz also provides techniques to help treat and heal lives, and how to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns. Dr. Jantz’s book, made available to attendees of his keynotes and workshops, helps identify patterns individuals use to get what they want from their relationships – sexual or otherwise.

He points out the reality that many, but not all, men who harass or abuse others sexually do not have a clue they are doing so. “Patterns of inappropriately relating to women become so ingrained that men see it as normal, or acting out on ‘healthy male impulses.’ Still other men are well aware what they are doing is risky behavior, yet are willing to take these risks for the thrill they receive in doing it. It becomes a game they think they can win every time. As many men are now discovering, the “game,” and our society’s intolerance of their behavior, is finally catching up with them. And with the advent of lightning fast reaction on the internet, and the permanence of that feedback, long-tern consequences can be devastating for both sides, albeit for different reasons.”

“The forces driving the sexualized relationships in our society include a combination of toxic components,” Dr. Jantz notes. “We have tolerated pornography and hookup relationships to the extent that they now seem normal and even a welcome part of healthy relationships. When men consume pornography they are bound to develop a distorted perspective of sexuality. This has bred a distorted view of powerful men believing they can act out on their impulses with impunity.”

In today’s frenetic push to uncover sexual harassment or abuse, Jantz says we are only seeing the tip of the iceberg. While many women (and some men) are willing to step forward and share their stories, most are not. They remain silent victims who often live with their pain, sometimes blaming themselves and afraid to speak up. Although some allegations may be untrue, or fabrications, Dr. Jantz says the vast majority have left indelible scars on those who are the trusting victims of the powerful.


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