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How is Your Anxiety Triggered By What You Eat?

Friday, August 26th, 2011

It is amazingly easy and convenient to feed yourself all the wrong things. You can cheaply fill yourself with highly processed, fatty foods full of refined sugar. It is possible to go days, weeks, months, or longer without eating a green, leafy vegetable or an omega-rich piece of fish. You can sustain yourself with a steady diet of fast-food combos and convenience store options. The question, of course, is for how long and at what price.

At The Center for Counseling and Health Resources, we treat the whole person, which means the emotional, relational, physical, and spiritual components of each individual. Over the years, we’ve learned how important the physical component is to treating issues like anxiety.

Think about examining what you’re eating and drinking. For you to get a balanced picture of your habits, I want you to do this for an entire month. What I’ve found is that people tend to be “good” when tracking for the first week or so but then revert back to reality. You can’t change what you’re doing if you’re not dealing with reality. So go for 30 days. Guidelines for doing this include the following:

Use a separate piece of paper for each day. Keep it with you during the day so you don’t forget to write something down.

  • Track what you eat every day, both weekdays and weekends. Many people have different rules for weekends, and I want you to have the full picture. You need to see the pattern of your eating across a broad span of time.
  • Continue to eat the way you always do. You may be tempted to modify your eating habits because you’re keeping track, but that will defeat the purpose. You need to be aware of what you’re doing, not what you wish you were doing.
  • Write down everything you eat and drink. That means everything that goes into your mouth. Everything counts, including water. You need to know how much you’re eating and drinking and what. Track amounts. Whenever possible, write down the caloric values for each.

For tracking your food, I’d like you to use the categories of the food pyramid: grains, vegetables, fruits, milk, meat and beans, oils, and discretionary calories. For tracking your fluids, I’d like you to use four categories: water, caffeinated, alcohol, and other.

If you’re being especially brave, write down what you’re doing each day in the way of exercise or moving your body. If you’re able, purchase a small pedometer and wear it. This will allow you to see how much you’re really moving your body each day. A healthy body and a balanced system contribute to your overall health and ability to stabilize and maintain your moods. You feel better and sleep better.

Do you have a physician? If so, call now and make an appointment, setting the date to correspond with the end of your tracking so you can bring in the results. If you don’t have a primary care physician, consider finding one and going in for a physical. Bring along your tracking. If you persist in doing this without a physician, be honest about what you’re doing and the changes you know you need to make.

There is an absolute connection between mind and body. They affect each other, for good or for ill. Proverbs 15:3 says, “A cheerful look brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones.” What you feel emotinoally affects how you feel physically. As you seek to live a more positive life, looking for the good, don’t neglect the health of your bones.

SOURCE: Chapter 13 in Overcoming Anxiety, Worry and Fear: Practical Ways to Find Peace

List of Twitter Chats for Good Health

Saturday, June 25th, 2011

In recent week’s I’ve been participating in Twitter chats led by Dr. Richard Besser (@DrRichardBesser), the Chief Health and Medical Editor for ABC News. There is a different topic focus each week – Tuesday mornings at 10 am (PT) – our most recent being the solicitation of health advice via social media.  Twitter chats are a great example and, in fact there are a number of them to choose from, including:

  • #CancerChat – cancer, cancer patient, cancer survivor, Oncology
  • #co_health – employee wellness, workplace wellness
  • #eldercarechat – elder care, elderly, geriatric, senior
  • #hcsm – healthcare communication and social media
  • #HITsm – health information technology, Healthcare IT social media, HITECH, HL7, Meaningful Use
  • #homecarechat – home care
  • #hpm – hospice, hospice and palliative medicine, hospice and palliative medicine physician, palliative, palliative care, palliative medicine
  • #IVchat – infusion therapy, registered nurse, RN, vascular access
  • #MDchat – doctor, physician, physician chat session
  • #meded – doctor, medical education, physician
  • #mhsm – mental health, mental health social media
  • #RDchat – dietitian, nutrition
  • #rheum – Rheumatoid Arthritis, Rheumatologist, Rheumatology
  • #RNchat – nurse, registered nurse, Registered Nurse community
  • #socpharm – biotech, ePharma, pharma, pharmaceutical, pharmacuetical company, social media marketing in pharmaceuticals

Thanks to the National Alliance on Mental Illness of Massachusetts (@NAMIMass) for sharing these Twitter chats with me, the full list of which is posted here.

Anyone can follow Twitter chats and, if you have a Twitter account, you can participate as well. The #abcDrBchat is a great place to start:

WHAT: Twitter chat with ABC News’ Dr. Richard Besser (and yours truly, among others)

WHEN: Tuesday, 10 am (PT)

HOW: Hashtag #abcDrBchat

Simply search #abcDrBchat to follow the conversation and include the same in your tweet if you’d like to participate.

5 Steps to a Healthier You

Thursday, April 8th, 2010

When you say, “I care about myself, and I am becoming the person I was meant to be;  I like what God has created, and I am a person who is losing weight permanently,” then a wonderful world of self-acceptance begins to unfold. The book of ancient wisdom reminds us that as a person thinks in his heart, so he is. That’s a very old saying, but no less true today than when it was written.

Think good thoughts of yourself. Never put yourself down. What you think, you are. Your subconscious hears it all and believes it all. Treat it with respect. It is one of the most important parts of something called YOU.

Ultimately, all these positive thoughts can and should lead to positive action:

1. Change the way you eat. Eat a healthy breakfast every day and cut down on the fat in your diet. Engage in an activity you enjoy for 15 minutes each day. The only rule is to move your body. Start drinking water and eliminate all sodas and diet drinks. And put your scale away.  Do all this for 30 days, then weigh yourself.

2. Begin a confidential journal that describes your innermost feelings. In your journal or notebook, take a daily inventory about how you feel about the three deadly emotions that must be dealt with by people who lose weight permanently: anger, fear, and guilt. You are not writing an essay for anyone else. These are your personal expressions. Write on these areas for one month.

3. Begin using the proper dietary supplements (not diet pills) to help you nourish your body, which may have been too long deprived of proper nutrients. Choose supplements from a source that you trust. It’s important that these supplements are designed specifically for people in recovery. If you are under the care of a physician for a particular medical condition, check with him or her before beginning the supplements.

4. Examine your emotional health. Studies indicate that 80 percent of people with eating disorders have been a victim of some form of abuse. If you experienced abuse, it may have been verbal, sexual, emotional, or physical. Write down your thoughts on your past. How have past events pushed you toward food? How can you best deal with that past and join those who lose weight permanently? If your abuse was long-term or extreme, we strongly suggest you make an appointment with a professional counselor.

5. Read and listen. Fortunately, there are some great books and audio available to help you get on track to permanent weight loss through healthy, balanced nutrition. These are not diet materials, nor are they intended to foster guilt or create shame. I highly recommend:

Eat Smart, Think Smart by Robert Haas

The Psychology of Living Lean by Denis Waitley

Graham Kerr’s Kitchen by Graham Kerr

Thin Tastes Better by Stephen P. Gullo

Dr. Cookie Cookbook by Marvin A. Wayne, M.D.

Wellness Medicine by Robert A. Anderson

Of course, I also suggest the book from which the material for this blog post is drawn — my own book, Losing Weight Permanently: Secrets From the 2 Percent Club.

SOURCE: Chapter 6, “A Nutritional Plan that Really Works,” in Losing Weight Permanently by Gregory L. Jantz, PhD., founder of The Center for Counseling and Health Resources Inc.

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Positive Self-Talk: An Exercise in Emotional Health

Monday, March 8th, 2010

Each of us has a set of messages that play over and over in our minds. This internal dialogue, or personal commentary, frames our reaction to life and its circumstances.

One of the ways to recognize, promote, and sustain optimism, hope, and joy is to intentionally fill our thoughts with positive self-talk.

Too often the pattern of self-talk we’ve developed is negative. We remember the negative things we were told as children by parents, siblings, or teachers. We remember the negative reactions from other children that diminished how we felt about ourselves. Over the years these messages have replayed again and again in our minds, fueling our thoughts of anger, fear, guilt, and hopelessness.

One of the most critical avenues we use in therapy with those suffering from depression is to identify the source of those negative messages and then work with the person to intentionally “overwrite” them. If people learned as children that they were worthless, we show them how truly special they are. If while growing up they learned to expect crises and destructive events, we show them a better way to anticipate the future.

Try the following exercise.

1) Write down some of the negative messages that replay in your mind, ones that undermine your ability to overcome depression. Be specific whenever possible, and include anyone you remember who contributed to that message.

2) Now take a moment to intentionally counteract those negative messages with positive truths in your life. Don’t give up if you don’t find them quickly. For every negative message there is a positive truth that will override the weight of despair. These truths always exist — keep looking until you find them.

You may have a negative message that replays in your head every time you make a mistake. As a child you may have been told “you’ll never amount to anything,” or “you can’t do anything right.” When you make a mistake — and you will, because we all do — you can choose to overwrite that message with a positive one, such as “I choose to accept and grow from my mistake,” or “As I learn from my mistakes, I’m becoming a better person.”

During this exercise, mistakes become opportunities to replace negative views of yourself with positive options for personal advancement.

Positive self-talk is not self-deception. It is not mentally looking at circumstances with eyes that see only what y0u want to see. Rather, positive self-talk is about recognizing the truth in situations and in yourself. One of the fundamental truths is that you will make mistakes. To expect perfection in yourself or anyone else is unrealistic. To expect no difficulties in life, whether through your own actions or sheer circumstance, is also unrealistic.

When negative events or mistakes happen, positive self-talk seeks to find positive out of the negative in order to help you do better, go farther, or just keep moving forward. The practice of positive self-talk is often the process that allows you to discover the obscured optimism, hope, and joy in any given situation.

Are you depressed? Though no replacement for a formal diagnosis,  this survey can help you recognize the signs.

SOURCE: Chapter 2, “Emotional Equilibrium,” in Moving Beyond Depression by Gregory L. Jantz, PhD., founder of The Center for Counseling and Health Resources Inc.

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Affirming Action for Eating Disorders: Are You Ready to Give Your Body to God?

Friday, February 26th, 2010

As National Eating Disorder Awareness Week comes to a close, I would like to share with you the end-of-chapter Affirming Action from Chapter 10, “Reclaiming the Gift of Health,” in my book, Hope, Help and Healing for Eating Disorders: A Whole-Person Approach to Anorexia, Bulimia and Overeating:

Consider these verses: “Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him: for God’s temple is sacred, and you are that temple” (1 Corinthians 3:16-17).

How long has it been since you considered your body a temple? Have you ever thought of yourself that way? God does. He considers your body as sacred. So sacred, he considers it an appropriate place for his Spirit to dwell.

In this world, you are also God’s hands and his feet. You are part of the body of Christ.

Up to now, you have considered your body your own. You have decided that you can treat, or mistreat, your body however you choose. You may have given God your heart, your mind, your soul, and your strength — but you have withheld his sovereignty over your body. You have chosen to continue to conduct your eating disorder on a body that does not truly belong to you any longer.

Are you ready to give your body to God? Are you ready to submit to his will concerning your body? And what is his will? For you to recognize your body as his temple, sacred to him.

I am learning to trust my body to function and heal as God designed it to. I am learning to accept and love all of me … my body included.

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How to Stress for Success: Dan’s Story Part I

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

Dan was a succcess in every sense of the word. To the average observer this young man had already achieved everything most people think they might want: comfortable home, loving wife, some modest investments that were starting to work — all neatly wrapped in an obsessive, insatiable need to work ten to twelve hours a day in a job where he listened to people spill their guts, share their dreams, confess their iniquities, and plead for his help. Dan was good at providing that help — that was the problem. He was, perhaps, too good.

Perhaps it’s best to let Dan tell the story in his own words:

“I was strong physically and mentally. I knew I was pushing the envelope with the intensity of my work, but I was confident that I could make a success of it, even though I was counseling people with the same tendencies toward burning the candle at both ends while I looked for creative ways to burn it in the middle also. I lived in full denial that I, too, might have a problem.

“Then, as it happens with so many people, I crossed that invisible line between living a whole, healthy life and what I would probably now call ‘temporary insanity.’ Not in the clinical sense, perhaps, but certainly a life that was out of control to the point of not knowing who I was, where I was, or what I was doing.

“I started drinking on weekends. Not much at first; just enough to take away the tension. The alcohol numbed my hurts, even as it numbed my spirit. I had crossed the line.

I became hypervigilant — a time bomb ticking off the minutes until it explodes. I couldn’t concentrate, and that’s when the depression began to set in. Everything about my life became distorted: I evaluated things as either completely good or totally bad and would either magnify or minimize the significance of an event. Perspective and a sense of balance had gone out the window.

“We no longer invited friends over to visit. Our once active social life went to zero. All the time, I kept drinking — not just on weekends, but now every night. Still, I was able to maintain the same hectic schedule of seeing people with similar problems. In a crazy sort of way I was probably even more effective in helping them through their challenges. After all, I could relate.

“However, I was becoming more isolated and aloof. I certainly wanted to escape, but I didn’t know how. I was slowly deteriorating in body and soul, perched on the precarious edge of emotional exhaustion. My marriage stayed together because my wife never left me, although it was an option she had many reasons to choose. We were two well-educated, sincere young people who were putting ourselves through a refining, fiery furnace of chaos that would ultimately help shape us into the persons were were designed by God to be. But burning out the dross, the misplaced ego, and my desire to be a little god was difficult and painful. There were times when I feared the anger of my wife toward me — and God — would push her over the edge. Thank God that didn’t happen. But it was a close call.”

Can you relate to the stress and the denial of stress about which Dan has been talking? Do you sometimes feel that you must manage it all, feel it all, be responsible for it all, and out-perform others as you do it all? At times do you isolate yourself from others and engage in activities such as drinking, overeating, or overshopping that keep you separate, alone, and aloof from friends, colleagues, and people who honestly care about you? Is it becoming harder for you to get up in the morning? Do you frequently burst into tears, not knowing why? Do you feel there’s never enough time to finish your work?

If your answer is yes to some of these questions, you are not alone. Millions suffer from ulcers,high blood pressure, tension, and addictions brought on by an inability to work through stress and recognize burnout before it starts to take its terrible toll on their lives.

You don’t have to be an air-traffic controller, lawyer, NFL football coach, cop on the beat, or the President of the United States to have stress. We all have it. But stress isn’t what hurts, maims,and kills; it’s how you and I handle it — before it becomes exhaustion. And that’s what this book is all about.

Next Tuesday — Part II of Dan’s story.

SOURCE: Chapter 1: “Coming Apart at the Seams” in How to De-Stress Your Life by Gregory L. Jantz, PhD., founder of The Center for Counseling and Health Resources Inc.

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