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Examine Your Excess

Thursday, June 10th, 2010

It’s been said about the stuff you find in garage sales that “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” Conversely, that would mean that one man’s treasure is another man’s trash. Garage-sale treasures aside — is the same true for God-given treasures? Do we turn things that God intended as treasures into something less appealing? I believe we do; we take things that God intended for good and trash them or abuse them until that good pleasure becomes a prison.

Our “prison cells” are lush. They’re cushioned with lots of our favorate foods and a well-stocked liquor or medicine cabinet. To drown out the sounds of true hunger, we fill them with all manner of noisy and absorbing distractions. The bars on our prison cells are made from the relationships we enter into and the possessions we purchase.

We easily find ourselves imprisoned by those very things that are often no problem for someone else.

We each tend to harbor one or more secret activity or behavior that we just can’t seem to get enough of. This “never enough” activity becomes our absolute necessity, our reward, our coping mechanism. We need (or so we think) this activity to insulate ourselves from the world. Because this world can be a pretty tough place, we need a lot of insulation.

In moderation and proper context, this “never enough” activity or behavior can even be a good thing.  Problems arise when we think that a little of this feels good, so a lot should feel even better. But, as the verses from Haggai warn, it doesn’t. This, however, doesn’t stop us from trying — hard. Pretty soon, our “never enough” activity is the wheel in the case, and we’ve become the rodent … running and running and running but ultimately going nowhere.

Now this is what the Lord Almighty says: “Give careful thought to your ways. You have planted much, but have harvested little. You eat, but never have enough. You drink, but never have your fill. You put on clothes, but are not warm. You earn wages, only to put them in a purse with holes in it.” ~Haggai 1:5-6

SOURCE: Chapter 2, “Examine Your Excess,” in Gotta Have It! by Gregory L. Jantz, PhD., founder of The Center for Counseling and Health Resources Inc.

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New Book Blog Series – Gotta Have It!

Thursday, June 3rd, 2010

Are you spending so much time trying to get what you want that you have no energy left to get what you need? Then I invite you to join me in a new blog series featuring excerpts from my new book, Gotta Have It! Freedom From Wanting Everything Right Here, Right Now.

Each of us has a “never enough activity, food, or behavior — and we’re ready to throw a grown-up tantrum when we don’t get it. I call this phenomenon excessity — when our excesses become necessities.

Excessities are our reward, our coping mechanism, and the illusory answer to pain. We feel we need their pleasure to insulate us from a difficult world. Yet the more we starve what we really need — such as purpose, hope, and security — the greater our hunger grows for what will never satisfy.

In Gotta Have It! you are invited to discover the truth that is hiding behind your secret desires. With real-life stories and sections for self-reflection, Gotta Have It! will help you see your life as never before — and delight in the ways God is longing to fulfill your true needs.

The book is divided into three sections:

Section 1 helps us identify those things that we’ve declared are an absolute necessity in life. It will also help identify if a necessity is — or has the potential to become — an overpowering excessity.

After identifying the truth behind our desires and wants, we’re going to take a look at our true needs in section 2. I will warn you up front that we are not the best judges of what our true needs are. Therefore, we’re also going to look at what God has to say about true needs and about wants and desires. When it comes to a plumb line for measuring whether or nothing something is a true need, we’re going to use God’s Word rather than relying on our own understanding or emotions. Take a deep breath now because this won’t be easy.

Section 3 is a reminder of the amazing provision of God in our lives. It will also help you to see the wisdom in letting go of some things so that you’re prepared to grab hold of others much more valuable.

Tomorrow section 1 begins — “The Power of Wants.”

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